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	<title>Comments on: What Do You Need?</title>
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		<title>By: Dan Girard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Girard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can understand where you&#039;re coming from. Most people who have a fear of public speaking are afraid of making a mistake. They get really nervous because they don&#039;t want to look bad in front of a crowd. That makes them even more nervous which makes them feel like they are going to make a mistake. And this just gets worse over time.

One piece of advice I like to give is to have people talk to strangers. I know this sounds weird but it works. Start by saying hello to a store clerk. You don&#039;t have to talk about anything else. But when you say hello, look them in the eye and really mean it. Say &quot;Hello, how are you?&quot;. Once you have mastered that, you can try to continue the conversation. Ask them how their day is going. Soon you will be able to begin a conversation with a total stranger.

Why this helps with public speaking is that it helps you control your fear of talking to people you don&#039;t know. It also gives you more confidence (in general) which can help you feel less afraid when you are in front of a crowd. And the less afraid you feel the more confident you become. And that goes on and on. Eventually you could learn to enjoy speaking in front of people.

I hope this helps. Good luck and speak well!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can understand where you&#8217;re coming from. Most people who have a fear of public speaking are afraid of making a mistake. They get really nervous because they don&#8217;t want to look bad in front of a crowd. That makes them even more nervous which makes them feel like they are going to make a mistake. And this just gets worse over time.</p>
<p>One piece of advice I like to give is to have people talk to strangers. I know this sounds weird but it works. Start by saying hello to a store clerk. You don&#8217;t have to talk about anything else. But when you say hello, look them in the eye and really mean it. Say &#8220;Hello, how are you?&#8221;. Once you have mastered that, you can try to continue the conversation. Ask them how their day is going. Soon you will be able to begin a conversation with a total stranger.</p>
<p>Why this helps with public speaking is that it helps you control your fear of talking to people you don&#8217;t know. It also gives you more confidence (in general) which can help you feel less afraid when you are in front of a crowd. And the less afraid you feel the more confident you become. And that goes on and on. Eventually you could learn to enjoy speaking in front of people.</p>
<p>I hope this helps. Good luck and speak well!</p>
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		<title>By: Joel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:36:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for offering such a wonderful information to the needy. 
my problem is exactly trembling and speeaking with a shaky  voice in public. once in front i feel alot of fear emanating from within. please help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for offering such a wonderful information to the needy.<br />
my problem is exactly trembling and speeaking with a shaky  voice in public. once in front i feel alot of fear emanating from within. please help.</p>
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